Hi mixed magnificence! I picture your hair is beautiful together with your numerous ethnic background. I'm Native Indian, Canadian, and Southern African, and my hair is Super thick, poofy, and afro like. I'm proud to say that my hair broke many combs and even scared away hair dressers :-). To begin with, congratulations in your babies! I feel that they may get pleasure from being so close in age. It's like having a best buddy for all times. They are going to experience this world collectively at the identical time, all the ups and downs it has to offer. I think your kids will really recognize their closeness in age, each when they are young and as they grow older. Second, THIS DEPRESSION Needs to GO NOW
!!!!!!!!!!!! It makes me offended that you're not completely happy. It is extreamly difficult being pregnant and coping with adjustments in your body all whereas taking good care of a little one and battling depression, however I know that you're gonna make it via this difficult time. On the subject of your hair: strive using a needle. With out the needle I would have never detangled my matts. It is a wining software, and the only software that may get between strands of hair which might be knotted together. Also, I Extremely recommend the knotty boy detangler that I mentioned in my blog put up. Begin with a very SMALL part, sluggish and regular wins in this race. Slather some knotty boy on the the SMALL part of hair, then decide at it with the needle. Please be careful, the needle can prick you. Also, in case your hair is in a tight matt, you may must snip off somewhat to create an entry level. If you possibly can. please give this method a attempt before cutting it off. When you're working on your hair watch one thing blissful on Television or in your computer. Make working in your hair as snug and as enjoyable as doable. In any other case it can drive you crazy and you'll hand over and simply minimize it out of frustration. It won't be simple, but give it a attempt. Just know that whether you detangle or lower your hair, both choice is the proper choice. It's all about you and what makes you comfortable and what's greatest in your thoughts and well being. It isn't about other individuals and how they feel about your hair. Their opinions do not rely and do not matter. If someone doesn't settle for you because of your hair LOL that individual has serious issues and you are better off not associating with them. Do not let others management your happiness. Live to please your self. Let me tell you, there are some very sexy and lovely quick hair kinds, and there are weaves, wigs, and extensions (although I do not suggest them). There are SOOO many options for those who lower your hair, and finest half is, your hair will grow back.